>>��Your predicament is: (1) you feel unhappy your sexual life for ever would be ruined unless your wife agrees to your request; (2) it hurts your wife to fulfil your request while you respect your wife. (3) seeking sex outside of marriage goes against bibical teachings. (4) you do not want to masterbate for the rest of your life that would make your sex life too dull.
>>��Look for a mistress unless your wife objects.
>>��If you read Corinthians', you realize that Paul advised people not to break a marrital commitment, he was not advising you not to engage in more than one commitment. Isaac and Jacob had more than one wife in Old Testament.
>>��Now a day, the law prohibits marriage with more than one woman because of some traditonal reasons.
>>��It must go with your wife's permit, or you commit adultery. Your wife is also one of your neighbors. Take care of her feelings and if it hurts, hold back on your plan.
>>��Though i am not any medical expert, by common senses, it occurs to me anal sex is consequentially unhealthy. Anal sex is not natural use of sex that i find no reason why God designs this organ for sex. You should consult the physicians for professional advice and i heard of some news that people with abuse on anal sex results in "loss of control" on excretion when they age. The same way you enrage the LORD you cause your wife vulnerable to this risk.