Re: continue to honor God

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Posted by Petro on May 1, 2003:
In Reply to: continue to honor God posted by R.S on January 25, 2003:
The only time in the Bible when God commands a man and his wife to have sex is when He says, "Be fruitful and multiply." Sex in marriage is not forbidden, but note that it is never encouraged except when they are told to procreate. So the argument that anal or oral sex is not forbidden in marriage is an argument from silence. To me it looks like looking for loopholes. In the Bible, marriage is not an institution for sexual pleasure. It is primarily for the rearing of children. That's why one could not be help but be nervous with your liberal position if one is seriously desiring to live in accordance with the Bible. But people who have anal sex are not bad people. Only God can judge. It would hypocritical for any of us to judge them. No one lives perfectly.

>>��Hi, I am also a Christian who has gone through a similar problem with my own spouse, and just read about the situation at hand here. Maybe I can help..
>>��I understand your wife may have feelings of being seen as "dirty" by engaging in anal sex, but I do not know of anywhere in the Bible that says this is wrong between 2 people who love God and most importantly are married. God designed sex for marriage and he knew exactly how important sex is in marriage.. wether it be anal, oral, vaginal, etc..what's important is that you respect and love your wife in that act. Talk to your wife and tell her that anal sex is just another way that you want to express intimacy with her. You will need to make her beautiful before and after and make sure that you take your time and are exrtemely gentle.. as anal sex can be very painful for a woman if a man just penetrates without control. But if she is'nt into it and says no, you can still find pleasure through oral sex.. perhaps the two of you could perform on each other at the same time or something. Sex does'nt always have to be vaginal.. and sometimes, if you get creative, you'll find out different ways to do oral and anal sex. Anyways, I hope things work out

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>>  The only time in the Bible when God commands a man and his wife to have sex is when He says, "Be fruitful and multiply."  Sex in marriage is not forbidden, but note that it is never encouraged except when they are told to procreate.  So the argument that anal or oral sex is not forbidden in marriage is an argument from silence.  To me it looks like looking for loopholes.  In the Bible, marriage is not an institution for sexual pleasure.  It is primarily for the rearing of children.  That's why one could not be help but be nervous with your liberal position if one is seriously desiring to live in accordance with the Bible.  But people who have anal sex are not bad people.  Only God can judge.  It would hypocritical for any of us to judge them.  No one lives perfectly.

>>  >>��Hi, I am also a Christian who has gone through a similar problem with my own spouse, and just read about the situation at hand here. Maybe I can help..
>>  >>��I understand your wife may have feelings of being seen as "dirty" by engaging in anal sex, but I do not know of anywhere in the Bible that says this is wrong between 2 people who love God and most importantly are married. God designed sex for marriage and he knew exactly how important sex is in marriage.. wether it be anal, oral, vaginal, etc..what's important is that you respect and love your wife in that act. Talk to your wife and tell her that anal sex is just another way that you want to express intimacy with her. You will need to make her beautiful before and after and make sure that you take your time and are exrtemely gentle.. as anal sex can be very painful for a woman if a man just penetrates without control. But if she is'nt into it and says no, you can still find pleasure through oral sex.. perhaps the two of you could perform on each other at the same time or something. Sex does'nt always have to be vaginal.. and sometimes, if you get creative, you'll find out different ways to do oral and anal sex. Anyways, I hope things work out

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