>>��I have been on the pill for several years and I do believe that it does cause some hormonal changes to occur causing depression or the blues - I too gained a little weight and just feel kind of yucky sometimes. Some months are better that others. You should speak to your mother and doctor about possibly changing to another brand - that could help. However the best advice I could give you is to hold your head high and learn from your mistake. Your mother is right about teenage boys - I've been through that (I'm 33 now). I did the same thing and became pregnant at 15 and place my baby for adoption. Somthing that I wish that I would have done is waited until I was much older - in "REAL" love and even married. Know that you are a wonderful and precious person and giving that gift of yourself away, especially to someone who can't and won't appreciate and truly love you for it is not worth it. Save yourself until you are with the one you wish to spend the rest of your life with - who will love you no matter what!! Wake up - smile at yourself in the mirror - do your best in school - feel good about yourself - and know that love will come when you are ready for it!!!! God Bless You!!
I have been on the pill for 5 months now and yes I have found that it does give me terrible mood swings and yes there are times where I do feel depressed. After me and boyfriend had sex, many things changed..we went from a point of extreme happiness and joy but I also went through a terrible time of insecurity. Sex does have a lot of consequences not only physically but emotionally...just remeber no matter what you can't get it back so thinking about it and regretting it, won't do you any good. Just remeber next time that you want to do it again, consider if it is something you really want. There are times where I wish I never did but I have to also remember that I love my boyfriend very much and we share a love that was real...if you remember that then you won't regret later on when you don't have those feelings anymore...it was so odd because for the last 3 weeks I have been terribly moody and it has almost wrecked my relationship...I can't blame it on the pill..but I do believe that it has something to do with it.