>>��Your afraid that she might "yell" alot. Thats your problem right there lady! What are you afraid that the girl might be startled? Get her feelings hurt? Maybe you think she shoud just get the "time out" chair huh? Hey I know! Take her barbies away! Nah! Lets just give her condoms. When I was twelve, I was a cheerleader, a majorette, a track star, and I played center on the girls softball team. My parents nonchaulantly kept their girls busy in positive activities. Our lifestyles were conditioned to where I didn't have sex until I was 23 and had just moved out of my parents house. My sister was a 27 year old virgin when she got married. We had enough respect for our parents not to break their hearts! I am 37 now, and sex at 12 would have gotton our asses KICKED! UNHEARD OF! If your grand-daughter is having sex at 12 you shouldn't be worried that mom might yell at her. Awww pooor little girl might get yelled at! She sounds like someone who never had her ass KICKED consistently while growing up. To hell with the Children's bureau! You put that foot down and if she don't like it, KICK THAT ASS! Let her know who is in charge of her life weather she likes it or not and deal with it until you wear her down if it takes years - save that girl heartache and her reputation along with unplanned parenting and disease! Might yell (tisk tisk tisk) someone need to kick your ass for being so lienent! Thats the kind of gaurdianship that makes thugs and whores! Put that foot down and kick that ass! Stupid people make me sick!