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I don't know what's wrong with me. I find some men to be physically attractive but can't picture dating one or having sex with them. I don't know if I'm gay or bi?! I think of them as friends and feel emotional intimacy mostly for women. Help :(

I feel I may be straight or

I feel I may be straight or bi, I really don't know. I wouldn't say gay because I definitely feel sexually attracted to some women.

As a kid, I always masturbated to the thought of males and females engaging in sex (I never pictured myself in the mix - mostly my guy friends having sex with girls). I don't find myself attractive at all so I thought that was probably why, since I'm so insecure about my body. Maybe that is why, who knows. I never imagined same-sex fantasies (however, I did once masturbate to men kissing).

Or maybe I'm just suffering from HOCD? I really don't know if that's it or if it's denial. I've never known if men found other men attractive, too awkward of a question to ask.

It would be really great if you could offer some advice!

Also, I forgot to mention

Also, I forgot to mention that I've never had sex before. However, I have been in sexual encounters with 2 women and thoroughly enjoyed it.

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