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I have finally accepted that I am a pathological liar, and wish to stop. My girlfriend is afraid though that even though I am intelligent, hardworking, and love her with all of my heart, that it will not be enough to overcome this. I truly believe that I can change myself though.
Yes, you can stop lying anytime you wish. Lying is a choice that you control every time you speak. However, since you are calling yourself a pathological liar I imagine you have been doing this for a very long time.
In other words, it is an old habit, and old habits die hard. You can change yourself but it will not be easy because you will have a tendency to slip back into that old comfortable pattern. Get a therapist who can help you understand why you lie, and get some friends to hold you
accountable to your resolve to tell the truth.
Best of luck,
Dr. Williams
Monnica T. Williams, Ph.D., Clinical Psychology
No Cost OCD Treatment: http://www.ocdproject.org