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Dear friend,
Can you say more about which things are causing you to cry? What things are you remembering which are so painful to you? You say you have been alone for twenty years, but given that you have painful memories, I am guessing that someone has hurt you in the past. Please say a little more about what is bothering you and what you are remembering when you feel so sad. I will be able to answer your question much better with a little more information. You could be suffering from a past trauma or your symptoms could be a sign of major depressive disorder, but only a visit to a mental health professional can tell for sure.
Best of luck,
Dr. Williams
Monnica T. Williams, Ph.D., Clinical Psychology
No Cost OCD Treatment: http://www.ocdproject.org
Hi dear,
It was really a great feeling to receive your response!
Actually my parents have been working since i was 2 years old. I had born many responsibilities at an early age of 10 years or so...my life has been complicated due to fights among my parents. I had handled last such an issue when i was 19.5 years old, as i remember. Look i remain positive for many things about me, like my ambitions, possibilities within me n so on..but as i have observed since childhood, many people have used my humanity in various ways and i have remained with no one so true to me, so,i usually go negative and cry. I have a biggest fear of losing my parents during my life time. I love them a lot,want to tell them that mom i love you, dad i love you, and i always want to see both of you together,but i can not express it, may be due to generation, tradition (Middle class Indians usually do not say like this to their parents) or conversation gap!
I am an obese personality, in spite of being graceful, people had and do make fun of me and even hate me!
I am a simple person..trust me! I hate being alone or even imagine about it!I just need peace around me and people who do not wear masks on their faces.
Thinking of these very complicated things and my life, i do cry...cry a lot as if i have lost a person very close to me.
Please help me!! I don't want my self to be called as mad or crazy woman!I want to achieve lots in my life.
Hi dear,
It was really a great feeling to receive your response!
Actually my parents have been working since i was 2 years old. I had born many responsibilities at an early age of 10 years or so...my life has been complicated due to fights among my parents. I had handled last such an issue when i was 19.5 years old, as i remember. Look i remain positive for many things about me, like my ambitions, possibilities within me n so on..but as i have observed since childhood, many people have used my humanity in various ways and i have remained with no one so true to me, so,i usually go negative and cry. I have a biggest fear of losing my parents during my life time. I love them a lot,want to tell them that mom i love you, dad i love you, and i always want to see both of you together,but i can not express it, may be due to generation, tradition (Middle class Indians usually do not say like this to their parents) or conversation gap!
I am an obese personality, in spite of being graceful, people had and do make fun of me and even hate me!
I am a simple person..trust me! I hate being alone or even imagine about it!I just need peace around me and people who do not wear masks on their faces.
Thinking of these very complicated things and my life, i do cry...cry a lot as if i have lost a person very close to me.
Please help me!! I don't want my self to be called as mad or crazy woman!I want to achieve lots in my life.
Dear friend,
It sounds as though you are suffering from loneliness and isolation. It is wonderful that you have parents you love and feel close to, however just the love of your parents is clearly not enough. You need to form relationships with others outside of your home. I know you said you worry about your weight and think that you are obese, but even here in the United States obesity is extremely common, and even obese people can find happiness and love and have many meaningful relationships. So, don't let that stand in the way of you going out there and making friends. You should travel, do fun activities with other people your age and find romance. And you will find that you feel much better. Let me know if that doesn't work.
Best of luck,
Dr. Williams
Monnica T. Williams, Ph.D., Clinical Psychology
No Cost OCD Treatment: http://www.ocdproject.org